It’s rare when my parents and I have a movie we all want to watch at the same time. When I was looking at all the movies the Salt Lake Film Society (SLFS) ‘At Home‘ streaming service was offering I came across Abe and showed the movie trailer to my mom. It looked like a movie we’d all enjoy, so we decided to watch it over the weekend. This looked like a sweet story about overcoming religious and cultural barriers that the whole family would enjoy.
Authenticity In Our Stories
I believe that the stories we tell mold and shape the way we view our world. Diversity in race, culture, gender, ability, and sexuality are all important to see in film as it contributes (however minor) to our collective tolerance and understanding.
There are those, however, that claim that any media that attempts to portray a character or culture that is anything other than white cis heteronormative is only doing so to be “politically correct.” And while maligning those cultures and characters simply for being “the other” is wrong and deplorable; there have been some occasions where a film has lazily used a culture/race/gender/sexuality/disability without any research or effort in order to seem “woke.” Let me be clear: diversity in a film is not the issue; bad writing and the lack of authenticity is. Even the most casual of movie-goers (the “popcorn munchers,” as my old boss would lovingly refer to them) can sense when a movie is not being authentic.
Abe, fortunately, is an extremely authentic movie. It tells the story of Abe, a twelve-year-old boy living in New York whose descendants are from Israeli Jews on his mother’s side, and Palestinian Muslims on his father’s side. Both sides of his family encourage him to go after the faith of their family, constantly pitting themselves against the other side. Abe’s father, himself disillusioned by all religion, tries to persuade Abe to abandon faith altogether while his mother insists that he is still a child and therefore unable to make any important decisions. Abe seeks to reconcile the two factions in his family, and is inspired by a local Brazilan fusion chef, Chico, who runs a food truck in Brooklyn. He seeks Chico out and becomes Chico’s student. The story moves along as Abe seeks reconciliation between the two factions of his family, and fusion between food.
What I seriously appreciate about this movie is that while there are opposing sides to the family, the film doesn’t divide them into “good” and “bad” sides. Both have their own faults and good intentions. The father doesn’t want Abe to feel pressured, but he also pushes atheism on him to the point that Abe feels frustrated that he feels like he can’t value any traditions. His mother also doesn’t want to push anything on Abe, but smothers him with her mothering. This film could’ve very easily made one belief the “right” one, but instead had all the nuances, triumphs, and failings that the varying cultures deserved.
Food and Family Fusion
Good grief, this movie is mouth watering! Just watching this movie made me want to be more serious about cooking so I could eat all of the food in the movie. But beyond that, I was really impressed that Abe didn’t start out immediately as a cooking prodigy. He had to learn, grow, and improve as a chef under Chico’s tutelage. The first time he even attempted fusion food (Ramen tacos), it turned out horrible. It shows Abe wanting to learn a skill, failing, learning from his mistakes, and getting better and better over time. I really appreciated that. It shows people that skills aren’t magically inherited or sustained by just raw talent—you have to work at it.
The symbolism between the harmony of the two different sides of the family, and the fusion food that Abe learns to perfect is an absolutely brilliant take that I’m glad got incorporated into the movie.
The Heart and the Stomach
When we put this movie on, I thought I was in for a visual feast with a story about the power of good food. And I got that. But I was totally unprepared for the emotional gut punch this film would bring. I couldn’t even blame the on-screen onion for my tears! All joking aside, this movie tells a powerful story about culture, family, and acceptance.
Abe is an absolutely incredible film that is truly needed in this day and age. Too often we define our relationships with others based on what divides us. Abe (both the film and the character) reminds us that although our divisions may be great, we can always find something that unites us.
Shout Out: Once again, a big thank you to the Salt Lake Film Society and their At Home streaming service for consistently providing a great film selection during the COVID-19 pandemic. If you are in need of a fascinating documentary, check out Fantastic Fungi. As always, if you choose to watch any of their films, consider donating to help keep them in business during this time of economic turmoil.
Recommendation: STREAM IT